Playa Grande · September She knows. Come anyway.

Guanacaste · Costa Rica

Pura Cassie

A pool, a beach, a sunset, a very long dinner, a slow birthday morning — and everyone who loves her.

Sat 5 — Sun 6 September 2026

Saturday is the party. Sunday is the birthday proper.

Cassie and her daughter on the sand at sunset, Playa Grande

Even the sun shows up for her.

Why we're doing this

Cassie talks to her plants and, as far as anyone can tell, they answer back. She'd sooner build the thing than buy it — then quietly build you one too. Every animal within a hundred yards finds her first, and promptly moves in.

She is, objectively, the kindest person in any room — and she'd argue the point, which rather proves it. Our family's North Star, and she's never once made a fuss about being it.

So we're making the fuss for her birthday. One weekend, one beach, and — for once — no say in the matter.

How the day goes

From 1pm

The villa, Playa Grande

Bougainvillea — all day, all color, no restraint.

Afternoon

Pool day and a barbecue

Everyone, all ages, in and out of the water from one o'clock on. Derek's on the grill, the pool is the whole plan, and there is nothing else you need to do until dinner.

5:30pm

Down on the sand

Evening primrose — opens at dusk, gone by dark.

Sunset

Everyone walks to the beach

Towels on, drinks in hand, five minutes' walk. The sun goes down around ten to six, and it's a slow, lovely thing.

7pm

Back at the villa

Frangipani — saves its scent for the evening.

Dinner

Sushi, pizza, cake

Sushi by Fern — $60 per adult, with veggie options. Everything else is on Derek: kids' pizza, champagne, beer, a signature cocktail, and a cake that arrives without warning.

Her night

After dinner

No end time

Night-blooming cereus — only opens after dark.

Late

Music, drinks, back in the pool

The part she'll actually remember. The speaker stays out, the pool lights go on, and the drinks keep coming. No end time listed, which is itself the plan.

Her actual birthday

Sunday

6 September

Coffee flower — blooms once, smells like jasmine, gone by noon.

Late morning

Champagne brunch

The birthday proper, taken slowly. We eat for a long time, say the nice things out loud, and then hand the villa back.

Afterward

A short hike back to the beach

Once we're checked out we're walking a small trail that comes out on the sand. Entirely optional, entirely her kind of thing — come along if the day's still yours.

Evidence

Cassie in a black dress, leaning against a bar
Off duty, entirely on form.
Cassie holding a puppy
Nara, her first doggo. Cassie, smitten.
Cassie laughing in a snowstorm
Winter never stood a chance.
Cassie with Harrison in the kitchen
Same grin, one foot taller.
Cassie and Derek with a friend on a patio
Her people, reliably delighted.
Cassie holding her daughter as a toddler
The North Star and her little orbit.
Cassie getting a tattoo while her daughter films it
Getting inked, fully supervised.
Cassie with purple hair, holding her daughter as a baby
Best smile ever.
Cassie poolside, years ago
Poolside, in her element.
The whole family in life jackets on a river trip
Chasing waterfalls.
Cassie and Derek on the water
Sunny day in San Francisco.
Cassie and Derek out for dinner
Evidence we own real clothes.

The details

Pool

All day

Open from one, and again after dinner.

Kids

Welcome

All ages, all day. Pool, dinner, and as long as they last.

Dinner

Sushi

Fern is cooking. $60 per adult, veggie options. Derek covers pizza, drinks and cake.

Sunset

~17:50

We walk down at 17:30. The one thing with a time on it.

Bring

A swimsuit

That's the whole list. Everything else is handled.

Swimsuit Kids welcome An appetite Nothing else

RSVP

Tell Derek you're coming.

Just reply wherever you got this link — how many adults, how many kids, and whether you're team sushi or team pizza.

She knows about Saturday. She does not know about the cake.

Press and hold

Made for Cassie, by Derek.

See you on the sand.

Or type her name. Pages keep secrets too.